This is a weird way of saying it, but its a useful model. My wife is a Macrobiotic chef and teacher, and that initiates a physical detox. If you stay with it long enough, it will initiate emotional detox and then spiritual detox.

Divine openings (in my experience) tends to have a reverse effect. Initially it will begin a spiritual detox, then an emotional detox and then eventually a bit of physical detox. Of course - your mileage may vary.


The blocks and "gunk" that needs to be discharged are very similar to icebergs:

• They are frozen (emotion/energy)
• You can only "see" the tiny tip of them
• They can and do wreck your ship and alter your course!

When you were young (even last week), you had experiences, emotions and energies that you didn't have the support or tools to deal with. To protect yourself, you FROZE those energies so you wouldn't have to feel them. Its a survival technique.

Those frozen energies (usually negative) are still there! You may only notice the tip of them from time to time consciously, but 97% of the block is under the surface. It still has an effect on you, but it can be tough to get rid of them... you went through great lengths to hide them from yourself!

These icebergs are attached to you still, and act as anchors... weighing you down and restricting your growth. Some people have built so many of these that they don't "move" much at all! They are stagnant in their life and closed off to much of the Divine flow.


So the natural Question is - "How do I get rid of these blocks?"

The natural Answer is simple - "Melt them!"

Think about it - these blocks (or anchors) are FROZEN energy patterns... so if you melt/dissolve them, then they will not exist anymore.

Consider that your "ship" is cruising around the arctic, and you have acquired several iceberg anchors. If you cruise towards the equator (towards light/love/Divine), then the icebergs will melt.

This is the process of positive thinking, affirmations, etc... over a long enough period of time, these "bergs" will get smaller and melt. Of course, the more anchors you have, the more slowly you will naturally move. This is why it can take some people years and decades to achieve release.



When you can LET GO and GET OUT OF THE WAY, the Divine will actually do the hard work for you. Think about it - you can melt an ice cube by holding it in your hand (ouch) or by setting it in the sun.

Divine Openings are a way of opening up and allowing more Divine Energy into your life. When this happens, things that used to be under your control come under the control of the Divine. There is a natural order and rhythm that begins to assert itself and your life gets easier, smoother and happier!

Love and happiness are the NATURAL states of life!


Often, though, we have a hard time letting go. When this happens in the process of detox, we experience a speed bump:

• In a physical detox, this can be the intense craving for the unhealthy stuff you are detoxing (sugar, cheese, etc.). It can also be a rash or even illness that pops up from the toxins leaving your system!
• In an emotional detox, this can be experiencing negative emotions, flashbacks to difficult times, anger, depression, etc.
• In a spiritual detox, this can be all of the above along with a crisis of faith or worse.

The key to dealing with these speedbumps lies in ALLOWING. When you have an old emotion or issue that comes up (like anger, fear or depression), you will want to HELP THE PROCESS by allowing it to occur. When you feel the energy, then it can pass... and once it hassed "passed away" it is gone.


Have the strength, courage and conviction to experience this feeling. Drop the story (he/she did this, or that), and just focus on the feeling. What does it feel like? Where do you feel it in your body? What does the energy feel like?

By allowing the feeling, and focusing on it, you are pointing awareness and Source energy there... which helps it to melt. Notice that you HAVE to drop the story, as the story is what builds it up. The story is what keeps the energy frozen! Don't give the blockage power - just experience it.

This takes a warrior mentality, but its NOT a struggle or a fight. Its courage to feel pain, but its LOVE and ACCEPTANCE of yourself, your experience and the lessons involved.

Once you let the energy flow and you feel the emotions, the lesson is learned. At that point, the energy has flowed on and is replaced by Source!


We are communal creatures, and we are here to learn and grow from each other. Seek out others that can offer you TRUE SUPPORT... that is, there is non-attachment and unconditional acceptance.

This can be tough to find - but if you ask, then you will find what you need!

This is why you must have the book, or classes or personal sessions before I can give you a Divine Opening. It would be irresponsible of me to initiate what could be a massive detox, and then send you off on your own to deal with it... without support you could end up worse off!

You don't NEED me or even Lola for this... If you want it and seek it, you will find your own path. Just know that I am here if you do want some help and support. My goal is to give you whatever you need... so that you don't need me!

Once you bump up a few levels, you will find that you don't need the "training wheels" any longer. You only need an experienced guide when you are new to a place... once you know your way around, the guide is merely a friend.


You will find some people who have mastered certain skills, but a TRUE master will always help you not need them. Any Guru that insists that you need them is attached to power... be warned.

You have a relationship with the Divine... you ARE the Divine! THATS your guru... thats your master... thats your path.

When you are right with yourself (with divinity), then everything else is right.